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April 19, 2010

Tip of the Week – 4/19 – Reclaim Your Power

Tip of the Week – Reclaim Your Power

Reclaiming Your Power

I’ve had a lot of examples over the last 2 weeks where I have encountered people who are filled with what I call “headtrash”. They are so focused on the ways that the job search has failed them. They don’t believe that they are ever going to find work. They are scared and they are desperate. Some of you are in this position, some of you are not.

When people are laid off from companies, they feel like their whole identity has been stripped away from them. Their circle of friends were normally just the people who they worked with. Many people have sat at the exact same desk and gone to work at the exact same time for years and years. Everything about them was defined by the job that they used to do. Sometimes their job/industry has disappeared completely. When that job is gone, they feel empty, hurt and rejected.

The job search itself is a defeating process if you don’t address it correctly. You pin all your hopes and dreams on that little apply button. “I’m perfect for that job, I’m sure they will hire me”. People wait by the phone and nothing happens. You stir up all this momentum to sit and wait for something that will never happen.

Some people get into a state of “headtrash” even when they are still working for a company. They think that whatever it is that they are currently doing is the only thing that they know how to do. They hope and pray that they can just continue to collect a pay check and that they won’t be a casualty of a lay off.

To all of this headtrash – I say – BE GONE!

I was working with a particularly bad case of headtrash. A friend of mine (I’ll call her Sarah (not her real name)) has been looking for work for the last 18 months. Nothing Sarah has done has resulted in gainful employment. Her husband also lost his job at the same time and he frequents himself with deep thoughts of depression and suicide. Sarah has reached a very desperate point trying to figure out how she’s going to put food on the table for her family. This once very strong Director of Sales is always holding back tears.

Lately when I’ve been working with Sarah. I have been trying to get her to step back into a place of empowerment. I ask her to think about the days when she confidently walked into the office and stole the show. Back in her glorious days she was able to negotiate multi-million dollar deals with her eyes closed. I forced her to go back and sit in that space again. Feel what it felt like to have that kind of power.

At first she wasn’t so sure about this process that I was taking her down. But, as she closed her eyes and reached back in her memories her posture began to change, a smile spread across her face and her whole energy about her shifted. Even though the last 18 months have defeated her, she could still go back and sit in her place of power. No one can take that from her.

Not all of you are as bad off as my friend Sarah. Some of you are just slightly wounded souls. Some of you are even at a point where you are becoming fed up with your current situation.Some of you are just starting the job search process.

To each of you, this week, I encourage you to go back to a moment in your life where you were proud and confident. It can be work related or not. Close your eyes and remember every single detail you can about that moment. Sit quietly in that moment for as long as you can stand it. If you must, set the timer on your phone for 5 minutes (or more) and just give yourself permission to go there and relish in every tasty detail. How did you feel that morning when you woke up? How did you feel that night when you got home? What are the details surrounding that perfect moment? The more emotion you can muster, the better!

This moment is your POWER moment. When you start to feel a little beaten – reclaim your power moment. When you start to feel a little depressed – reclaim your power moment. When you start to feel a little hopeless – reclaim your power moment. When you start to feel frustrated – reclaim your power moment.

Every time you sit at your computer and send out an email to ask for a meeting – sit for 5 minutes in your power moment. Before every single interview (informational, phone screen, in person, whatever) sit for 5 minutes in your power moment. Any time you are about to make a big decision affecting your career, sit for 5 minutes in your power moment.

You are an EXPERT in something. Reclaim that power!

I am not a therapist or a counselor. I have no formal training at all. However, I promise you that if you take the time to feel your power again you WILL start to feel more powerful things begin to happen in your life.

Try that out this week and report back to me on the changes that you start to see. :)

The Job Seeker Tip of the Week is published Each Week in the Job Seeker Newsletter.

April 8, 2010

Tip of the Week – 4/8 – Stop being Schizo

Tip of the Week – Stop being Schizo

I hear people tell me all the time “I have a wide variety of talents”, “I don’t fit into just one job title”, “Companies think I would get bored easily”, “Companies don’t know where to put me” or a wide variety of other sayings along that expression.

Anyone who has worked for a company for more than 5 years has had to take on many hats. Most of these hats do not belong to their job title.  To add further confusion, many people are at a point where they don’t want to go back to do what they used to do. Instead they would like to use their talents or interests to do something different.

UNFORTUNATELY, companies don’t typically hire someone who is a jack (or jackie) of all trades. They have one particular role they are trying to fill and they want to find a person who can fit that one particular role.

I was helping a company hire a Customer Support position. I had found them what I thought was the perfect candidate. I sent over the candidate’s resume with all the proper information and credentials. Unfortunately, the hiring manager saw that this candidate had worked in real estate for a little while while they were also working in tech support. The hiring manager didn’t want anything to do with this candidate because he thought that the candidate did not exhibit the behavior of a TRUE Tech Support person. I did my best to convince the hiring manager otherwise but they would not hear of it. In hindsight, I should have taken the real estate part out of the resume. However, I thought it added color and flair. Instead, it just ended up causing confusion.

That hiring manager was a little bit extreme in his thinking. However, it’s not that far from the reality of what happens when someone goes through a giant stack of resumes. If you compare two resumes side by side and one of them ONLY talks about why they are a perfect fit for the role and the other resume refers to how they are a fit but also how they can be a fit for other things, the hiring manager will pick the first resume every single time. It’s less work. It’s less confusing. And you do not have to waste time figuring out how that person might fit in your organization.  The only exception to this rule is when the Hiring Manager doesn’t really know what they want the role to be – in which case someone who can wear different hats is a benefit.

Then the question comes up – “What to do I do about Linked In” where anyone out there can read about me. My opinion – figure out what it is that you really WANT to do. Make sure that your profile reads that you are perfect for that role that you want. In the paragraph at the top you can explain your ideal role and also indicate that you are good at other things as well. Each job section should include why you are a fit for your “perfect” role and then have a subsection that indicates why you fit other roles as well.

When you are out networking, you should pick one hat to wear for each event that you are attending. Trying to explain the 100 roles that you previously filled just becomes tiresome for the person who is listening to you. It’s okay if one day you’re a Project Manager and the next day you are a Technical Sales guru. Just pick one person to be that day.

If you are STILL completely confused and don’t know where to even start to sort out your hats. Well, that’s where I suggest that you get involved with Austin Career Coaching (www.AustinCareerCoaching.com). That’s where we shine! We’ll help you figure out which hats to wear on which occassions and how to showcase each of your hats in the best light.  I know that was a gratuitious plug for one of my other hats. However, I really don’t have time to explain the whole process in a blog. :)

The Job Seeker Tip of the Week is published each week in the Job Seeker Newsletter.

March 23, 2010

Tip of the Week – 3/23 – Jobs vs Dating

Tip of the Week – Jobs vs Dating

It occurs to me frequently that the Job Search is so much like the Dating process. Sometimes I see it in my work as a Career Coach and sometimes I see it in my single life looking for my own match.

Here’s how I see it

  1. There must be a mutual match for both interested parties
  2. Desperation is not attractive
  3. Each side has a detailed list of qualifications that the other side must meet
  4. You can conduct your search online, but it’s much better to have a personal referral
  5. Frequently there is a phone screen before a face to face meeting
  6. Sometimes they don’t call you back
  7. Interviews should be conducted with plenty of questions from both parties
  8. You SHOULD require a background check but it doesn’t always happen
  9. There is an intricate negotiation dance
  10. Salaries and Benefits should be delayed until late in the conversation
  11. Ultimately it comes down to “Do they like me better than all the rest?”
  12. Rejection is never a pretty thing
  13. You should not fall in love until a clear offer is made
  14. Commitment will greatly impact your life
  15. If this opportunity doesn’t work out, there’s always more to come

Now I am sure that there are many other similarities, but this is just what I came up with off the top of my head.

Many job seekers that I talk to are so set on just finding a job that they don’t spend enough time finding THE RIGHT JOB. I suppose the same could be true in dating as well. In both cases, if you don’t make sure that it’s the right fit for you, you’re not going to be happy.

For the next job that you become interested in, look at it as if it were someone you were interested in dating. Do you have enough information? Do you love it? Does it feel right? Are you going to be happy at the end of the day? Have you asked enough questions to make yourself comfortable about the decision?

And of course, as my grandmother always says “There’s plenty of fish in the sea”. If it doesn’t fit, move on. There’s another good one waiting for you!

Tips of the Week are published weekly in the Job Seeker Newsletter.

March 17, 2010

Tip of the Week – 3/17 – Storytelling

Tip of the Week – Storytelling

Within the Job Search, you must learn to master the art of storytelling.

You use storytelling for:

  • Introducing Yourself
  • Asking for Help
  • Creating your Resume
  • All of your Interviews

Frequently the best storyteller is the person who will receive the job. How good of a story teller are you?

  • Do you know which stories you want to tell?
  • Do you know what your stories are saying?
  • Do you know which stories to tell in which occassions?

In telling your story, does the story draw empathy from the other person? Do you have elements of humor in your story? Does it tell people who you are?

Write a list of the qualities that you think are your strongest assets. Add the qualities needed for your next position to that list. Go down the whole list and see if you can tell a story that highlights each quality on your list (sometimes you might duplicate stories). Practice those stories with a friend.

Remember they are your stories. You aren’t making them up. Remember what it was like to be in those situations. Feel it all over again. Feel proud for what you accomplished in each of those moments.

If this is a challenging exercise for you, let me know. I am considering pulling together a “storytelling” connection conversation if there is enough interest.

The Tip of the Week is posted in the Job Seeker Newsletter each week.

March 11, 2010

Cover Letter Advice

Filed under: Job Seekers, Uncategorized — Kim B @ 11:33 am

From: katie edwards [mailto:kedwards_hr@yahoo.com]
Sent: Tuesday, March 09, 2010 8:12 AM
To: Kim Brushaber
Subject: Re: Executive Networking Tomorrow

Here is an article from today’s WSJ. I tried to put it on our linked in page as a discussion article but it was too big. Can you somehow share it? Thanks

Standout Letters to Cover Your Bases

By SARAH E. NEEDLEMAN

It’s something job seekers often wonder: Do you really need to submit a cover letter with your résumé?

Some hiring managers confess to ignoring these introductory notes, while others say they read them attentively. Hiring managers say that despite the vast advice available on writing cover letters, many job hunters don’t submit them. But applicants who take the time to craft a cover letter stand a fair chance at setting themselves apart.

And given the stiff competition for jobs these days, career experts say writing an introductory note may be worth the effort, especially for career-changers and individuals whose résumés show a red flag, such as an employment gap.

To make a favorable impression, hiring managers say job hunters should craft different letters for every application and tailor them to both the employer and position they’re targeting. Cover letters should be brief, says David Loeser, executive vice president, human resources, for baked-goods company Hostess Brands Inc. in Dallas.

One way to customize a cover letter is to reference an employer’s products or services or point out content on its Web site. Another is to comment on a trend within the organization’s industry. If you know the name of the hiring manager for the position or a human-resources manager at the firm, you should address him or her directly and—whenever possible—acknowledge something personal about the individual.

High-Priority Candidate

Last spring, a job hunter wrote in a cover letter to Chris Willis, vice president of human resources and general counsel for Dallas-based distributor Interstate Battery System of America Inc., about how he had just graduated from Mr. Willis’s alma mater. The job hunter, who was seeking a legal position, also noted Mr. Willis’s involvement in the Texas General Counsel Forum, a trade group. Mr. Willis says Interstate Battery didn’t any have any legal jobs open at the time, and still doesn’t, but the writer will “be top of mind” whenever one is available. “We’ll keep him on file in a database of high potentials that get higher priority when it comes to recruiting,” Mr. Willis says.

To customize a letter for a particular position, applicants should show how their backgrounds line up with the requirements outlined in the job description.

“With a cover letter, you can get more context than you might get in a résumé,” says Craig Campbell, director of staffing for Dolby Laboratories Inc., an entertainment-technology company in San Francisco.

A recent applicant for a director of business-development position at Dolby described how his background matched the four qualifications listed in the ad for the job, says Mr. Campbell, adding that the applicant was granted an interview.

Cover letters also are ideal for clearing up anything in a résumé that might confuse or concern recruiters. Clare Shanahan, senior director of talent acquisition for Fireman’s Fund Insurance Co., a high net worth insurer in Novato, Calif., says she recently received a cover letter from a job hunter that explained why his résumé didn’t list an employer after 2008: He had spent the past 18 months unsuccessfully trying to launch a business.

“It showed that he was honest and entrepreneurial,” she says, adding that she extended this person an interview invite for a senior-level sales and marketing position at Fireman’s Fund. “Had he not done that, there would’ve too much room for doubt.”

Similarly, Natalia Schultz, chief talent officer for Grey Group, a New York-based advertising firm, says she granted an interview to an industry outsider after reading the person’s cover letter about why she wanted to change careers and join Grey in particular. “It was such an incredibly compelling note that I had to meet her,” she says.

No Mistakes

Make sure every cover letter is error-free or your hard work could backfire. About 20% of applications for jobs at Fireman’s Fund include introductory notes, says Ms. Shanahan. Of those, she estimates 30% contain mistakes, most commonly because they’re addressed to the wrong company or recruiters’ names are misspelled.

Sloppiness can automatically eliminate an applicant from consideration, says Ms. Shanahan. “The person’s résumé and credentials would have to be really outstanding to compensate, and many recruiters may not look past the cover letter to make that assessment,” she says. Factual, spelling and grammatical gaffes indicate “a lack of attention to detail,” she adds.

Cookie-cutter cover letters also can derail an applicant’s shot at landing an interview. “I can tell if it’s a form letter and they just inserted my name or my agency,” says Ms. Schultz. “I’m immediately turned off.” An original, but lackluster cover letter will likely generate the same reaction, she adds. “If it’s boring, I don’t want to meet you,” she says.

Job hunters should further keep in mind that many employers use tracking software to store and share information about applicants and can therefore tell if someone submitted the same exact cover letter for more than one position.

And while mailing handwritten cover letters through the postal service may be a way to avoid this, recruiters say doing so is unlikely to win their favor anyway.

What’s more, even sending a well-crafted note this way, rather than via email, also may not be wise since doing so prevents recruiters from forwarding it to other decision makers.

March 8, 2010

Tip of the Week – 3/8 – Know What You Want

Tip of the Week – Know What You Want

If you don’t know what you want to do, how is anyone supposed to be able to help you?

There are many job seekers who are out there and really don’t know what they want to do. Or if they do know what they want to do, they don’t know how to vocalize it. Are you one of these job seekers?

  • Can you clearly communicate to someone else the ways you bring value to an organization?
  • Can you clearly communicate the aspects of a job that you love?
  • Can you clearly communicate what your perfect job looks like?
  • Can you clearly communicate what you used to do in your old job?

Don’t be suprised if you answered “no” to every question above. Most job seekers can not clearly communicate anything about what they enjoy, what they have done or what they would like to do in the future. Couple that with the fact that most people do not like to brag about themselves and you’ve got a recipe for pure confusion.

Think of it like the genie who grants you 3 wishes but does it in a way that you can not expect. If you told that genie that your wish was to “make $100K a year and live in Austin Texas”, that genie may grant you a position where you are working 80 hours a week under enormously stressful conditions. Your blood pressure goes through the roof. You’re angry all the time. You have customers/clients screaming at you constantly. You have a boss who is threatening to fire you at a moments notice. The genie gave you what you wanted. However, is your life any better? Could you have been clearer in your desires?

I challenge you to define:

  • What do you do better than 95% of the people out there?
  • What do you really enjoy doing?
  • What kind of an environment do you want to work in?
  • What is your realistic salary expectation?
  • Are you willing to travel?
  • Are you willing to relocate?
  • Do you need any specialized benefits?

Once you have those answers, then you need to start to figure out how to tell someone else about them.

  • Can you say what you do on a simplistic level and have someone understand it? Practice on a 5th grader, a server at a restaurant or your grandmother (you get the point).
  • Can you dress up the story and communicate it to someone who is in the same business/industry/function as you?
  • Can you dress it up more and communicate your values to a future employer?

If this task seems way too daunting for you, find a friend to practice it with. If it still seems too daunting, find a Career Coach to work with. Of course, I’m going to plug Austin Career Coaching, since I’m the Director of Networking there. However, pick one that you feel comfortable with and get them to start working with you.

Until you are clear on what you want and you can communicate it effectively, you will continue to spin your wheels.

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November 1, 2009

2000 vs 2008 – The Job Search Saga Continues

Filed under: Job Seekers, Uncategorized — Kim B @ 9:38 pm

I was exchanging emails with my friend, Robert Betts.  He was telling me about how he was talking to a friend of his who was a Director at an Austin company.  This director spent 3 years pondering job search issues before he was finally able to find a new job.

I started to respond back to Robert with my take on why we are seeing this problem occur right now.  It’s not just Robert’s friend. It’s hundreds of people that I talk to every single day.  I decided to instead post this as a blog.  I will warn you that I make some “generalizations” in this blog. I know it won’t resonate with everyone, but I know that it will hit home for many.

Austin went through a huge round of layoffs from 2000 – 2002. At that point in time it hit the relatively new tech sector.  There were a lot of businesses that were funded that probably shouldn’t have been.   The web was pretty new and money was being thrown at anyone with an idea.  People took risks and left their jobs to be parts of these great ideas.  However, the people who were affected when these layoffs hit were people who already knew they were in a risky situation.  They were comfortable with the idea of change and were prepared to do something different if the idea did not work out. They bounced back easily.

This round that hit us in 2008 and has been affecting us through 2009 has been different because it has hit a part of the workforce that was supposed to be “Safe”. People who had the same job for 10 – 20 years were affected in this round.  This group of the population chose the positions (and companies) that they were in because they wanted some place that was safe and stable.  All they had to do was keep doing their job and they could coast easily to retirement.

During the 2000 hit,  job boards were a relatively new concept.  There weren’t that many people applying online, so the companies that were using online technology were not inundated with the number of applications.  In fact, it helped them to reach a certain part of the population that was tech savvy.

In the 2008 hit, everyone knows about job boards. The “Apply Button” is available on every single company’s website.  It appears to make the job very easy for people.  All they have to do is be qualified and they can submit their resume through electronic means and they trust that someone on the other side of the screen is going to see them and love them. (For my take on the Apply Button check out this previous blog post – http://www.bridgeatx.com/blog/?p=91)

 We are now in an environment where people have lived their lives masked behind computer screens.  They work all day and then they isolate themselves from the world when they go home.  Some people watch reality TV shows to make them feel like they are part of another person’s life.  If people have families, the family circles around computers and tvs to entertain themselves.  For the most part, our circle of friends were our coworkers.

So this leaves us with a circle of contacts between our family and our friends who we used to work with.  Old coworkers either can’t hire us back at our old jobs OR they are struggling to find a new job as well.

The people who are fairing the best in the job search right now are the ones who:

A) Kept in contact with coworkers after they left our organizations

B) Have a circle of parents they have bonded with over children’s extra cirricular activities

C) Have maintained a large circle of friends

D) Have established vendor relationships with other companies not affected by layoffs

E) Are going out there and networking and meeting new people

So, what do you do if you are not one of the groups listed above. 

You’re scared. You’re resistant to change. You have a low risk tolerance. You’re depressed because the tactics that are easy for you are not working out. You’re depressed because you feel like your lay off was a divorce from the company not just a lay off.  You don’t want to go out there and learn something new.  You just want your old job back! As crappy as that job might have been, it was familiar.

So, now what?

  1. Recognize the situation that you are in – stop hiding from it
  2. Seek professional help – don’t think you can take on your job search alone. There are lots of well qualified career coaches out there to help you.
  3. Circle the Wagons – who have you lost contact with that can help you?
  4. Build a new network – get out and meet new people
  5. Create a Plan – make a plan for what you are going to do to get that next job
  6. Act on your plan – implement strategies that will help you in this search
  7. Be realistic – set goals for yourself that are achievable
  8. Find a partner – find someone outside your family who will hold you accountable to those actions
  9. Go Easy on Yourself – stop beating yourself up
  10. Celebrate – start celebrating every little triumph along the way

This job search pattern that started in 2008 is different than any other job search that has been out there before.  Old tactics no longer work.  Get creative and figure out how to get yourself that next job!

October 27, 2009

Job Seeker Tip of the Week – 10/1 – Create A Target List

Filed under: Job Seekers, Tip of the Week, Uncategorized — Tags: , , , — Kim B @ 5:46 pm

Tip of the Week

 

It is better to have a focused search in your job hunt than an “I’ll Try Anything” search.  Develop a list of your top 10 companies.  Make an effort each week to get to know everything you can about 2 – 3 companies on that list (more if you have time). Set a goal to be talking to someone who works for one of those companies by the end of the week.  Ask everyone you come in contact with that week for help getting connected.

Job Seeker Tip of the Week – 10/8 – Be Specific

Filed under: Job Seekers, Tip of the Week, Uncategorized — Tags: , , , — Kim B @ 5:45 pm
Tip of the Week
 
When you are asking people to help you in your job search you must account for two pieces.  How well do you know the person?  How easy is it for the person to help you?  The better you know someone and the easier you make it for them to help you the better results you’ll see in your search.  So, instead of saying “I’m a tech writer and I need a job.”   Say something like “I’m a tech writer and I recently saw a position posted for ABC Corp and I know your friend Joe Schmoe works there, would you mind sending an email to him to introduce me?  Here’s some details on why I’m perfect for that position: …..”.

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